Helping your Child Pay Attention

Helping your Child Pay Attention

Teachers and parents often tell children to “pay attention” because they realize that students will not remember information unless they stay focused on the task at hand.

The ability to focus your attention may seem simple to you, but paying attention is a skill and, like all skills, it may be learned. Many students have never learned how to block out distractions and direct

their thoughts and energies. Parents can help children improve their ability to concentrate by teaching them a few simple techniques.

Helping your Child Pay Attention

1. Use Positive Images and “Self-Talk”

Many people can improve their attention span by controlling the images they have in their

mind’s eye. For example, when runners are halfway through a race, they may picture the

victory of crossing the finish line; or dieters may imagine a slim new appearance when

tempted by ice cream cone. These images help keep attention focused on a difficult task.

“Self-talk” is similar to this – you give yourself a mental “pep talk.” A child might tell

himself, “I know I am getting distracted, but I can fight it. I will study for another half-hour

and then take a break.” Children can use both “self-talk” and images to direct their attention

away from distractions and toward the task at hand, whether it is homework, classwork or a


2. Ask Questions

Another way to direct attention is to ask questions while studying. Some general questions

you can suggest your children ask themselves are…” What is this paragraph about? Who did

what and why? What is the evidence that supports the main idea? Is this true or false, and

why?” Asking themselves questions serves two purposes. First, it helps students bring their

wandering attention back to the task at hand. Second, it helps them keep their attention on

the task.

3. Set Specific Goals

One activity that often improves attention is to give your children specific goals to work

toward as they study or read an assignment. The goal you set will depend, of course, on

the lesson and on your children’s ages. You might want them to study until they can tell

you the main idea of a paragraph, until they can solve a specific problem or until they learn

the specific names, dates and places mentioned in the text. When setting studying goals,

remember that many small goals, presented one after another, are better than a single large

one. As your children become more used to using specific goals to guide their studying,

you can ask them to construct some of these goals themselves. Encourage them to divide

their study tasks into small segments, with a goal for each. (“I will read this section until I

understand its main point. Then I will go on to the next section.”)

These three strategies – positive images and “self-talk”, questions related to the task, and

specific study goals – will help your children develop better skills for paying attention to their

school work and will get you directly involved in helping them to succeed!

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